’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers finds that star, Kim Menzies is focusing on her future with the love of her life, Usman Umar, a.k.a Sojaboy. Sunday’s episode of Happily Ever After? Saw the duo make a major decision in their relationship by bringing Kim’s son Jamal to meet Usman for the first time in Nigeria.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Usman Meets Kim’s Son, Jamal
While Kim was excited to be reunited with her son, she fworried about the fact that the visit would be her first opportunity to speak in person with him about her ever-changing plans to have a family with Usman. She would have to talk about her fiance’s unexpected new idea to adopt his nephew Mahadi. Kim said, “It’s a lot to think about for me and for Usman.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Usman Umar And Kim Menzies Prepare Take A Step Towards Blending Their Families
I really don’t if I could raise a child in an environment without Jamal’s acceptance.” Fans know that Kim had to agree to Usman marrying another woman for the purpose of procreation, and when Kim agreed, they learned that U.S. law would not allow the Nigerian to have more than one wife and legally immigrate America. This is why they started to consider adopting his brother, Mohammed’s son.
Before their flight, Kim appreciated Jamal for taking “the big step” of traveling to Nigeria with her, and he told her that he was looking forward to meet her man. However, he still had doubts about Usman, and when Kim said he would feel better about Usman when they finally spend time together, Jamal responded, saying “I hope so.”
Kim confessed the next day her hesitance to adopt her fiance’s nephew, Mahadi. Although he had assured her that the boy would have a better life if they adopted him, she was still wanted to get their blessing. “I want to make sure if we do decide to this and adopt this little boy I’m doing it because it’s the right thing to do.
I’m not doing it to keep Usman. I’d rather break up with Usman than do anything to hurt him or myself,” she said. Jamal then told her “Take it all one step at a time, no matter how insane some of it sounds.” Usman met them at the airport and embraced Kim. (Jamal said, “I felt like I threw up.”) Jamal said the reality began to sink in. “It’s hit me,” he said. “I don’t know when is the last time I sat with a boyfriend or a fiancé and you, and we all ate together as a family.” Usman got candid and told Jamal: “I feel like you don’t like me.”
After telling Usman that he was wary after seeing his mom experience a lot of heartache, Usman assured him that this relationship was different. He then surprised his fiancee’s son with a PS5 game console. “I ask nothing from you but respect,” he told Jamal. “
And I’m not asking to respect me as your father. I’m asking to respect me as a man.” Jamal later said during an interview that he was beginning to feel more confident about his mom’s relationship. “Tonight, I feel like this is ending on a good note,” he said.
