’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers finds that cast member, Kim Menzies wants to be the first priority when it comes to her marriage with Nigerian rapper, Usman “Sojaboy” Umar.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Usman’s Mom Says He Can’t Marry Kim
People shared an exclusive sneak peek at Sunday’s episode, which shows Kim in shock after Usman’s mom tells him that he can’t marry her — at least unless he takes a younger wife. The episode shows sad and angry couple, Kim and Usman leave the unfortunate family meeting in Nigeria. However, Kim is set on proving her worth. The couple are seen having a conversation, and Kim tells her partner why she deserves to be his first wife and reminds him she be second to anyone — even a fertile younger.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Kim Menzies Says She Is ‘Not Gonna Be Anybody’s Second’ After Usman’s Mom Asks Him o Take A Younger Wife
Usman talks about their encounter first, after he told his family that Kim would let him take a second wife so that she can bear kids for him. “I was thinking that would touch them,” the Nigerian said. “But they just turned it upside down.” He notes his Nigerian culture and the expectations of his family members.
“What I’m saying is that we have certain culture over here that you can never go against, too. But I hope you have seen how much I love you. And you know how my mom is to me. You know how I see my mom. I think after God, I see my mom second God to me.”
Usman goes o to reveal that he cannot go against his mother’s wishes, and tells Kim he’d have to marry a younger woman before. “Then it’s over,” Kim says. “I’m not gonna be the second wife. I can’t. I can’t let myself be like that.” Sh goes on to say that she respects Usman’s mother, but it’s against her nature come second to another woman. “I won’t be anybody’s second anything,” she adds.
“It’s like his mom was giving me a compromise, but I can’t make any more exceptions because I have exactly what I want now — his love. I feel like the love he has for me now will change with that.” Kim compares it to relationships past. “Getting the title of the first wife is so important to me because in previous relationships, I always came second. Always. I was always pushed to the side, and I’m not gonna let that happen to me again,” Kim later says in an interview. “I don’t care if he came here and proposed to me right now with the biggest diamond in the world. I’m not his second. Sorry. I can’t. I know my worth.”
