‘90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers finds that couple, Kim Menzies and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar’s relationship seems to have hit the rocks on Sunday night’s episode. What happened between the lovebirds?
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Is This The End For Kim And Usman?
“I cannot continue this way,” Usman Umar confessed during an interview. “I cannot be in [this] relationship that is so toxic and it look unhealthy to me. I don’t see any reason why a woman that is 18 years older than me would be behaving like somebody who is younger than me.” The rapper and his older fiancee’s breakup came after Kim said Usman is not giving her enough attention after flying down to Nigeria to be with him.
’90 Day Fiancé’ Spoilers: Kim Menzie And Usman Umar End Their Relationship: “I Cannot Continue This Way.”
She also shared that her man told her off camera that she needed a “tummy tuck.” She got angry because his criticisms were too much. He didn’t even respond like he cared when she told him that she had “sacrificed” so much to be with him. Kim left her engagement ring and stormed out, although she returned later to sort their issues. “I don’t want to end it with you. I don’t want to not marry you, but I want to be heard in this relationship,” she told her rapper fiance.
“Sometimes you make me feel like I’m just not good enough … I don’t want to be anybody’s favor.” Although Usman was not ready to mend things, he replied, “I don’t want to drag this to go long and I’ll tell you why. You always think, or you feel like, you are doing a lot. You say you sacrifice the most. I feel the same way.” He went on to say that he only considered adopting his brother’s son, before adding that, “I think the decision you made, Kimberly, is the best. You don’t want it. You removed the ring. I think it is high time I just go back home.”
During an interview, Kim expressed her frustration, saying, “This just might be it ’cause he’s not hearing me. He sacrifices so much to be with me — I’m tired of that s— being in my face too. Let one of these bitches in his DMs get him.”
However, Usman’s last straw was her willingness to quit the relationship, “Kimberly does not understand the kind of sacrifices I’m making to be together in life,” he said. “She is walking away all the time. Then later, she come[s] back and [says] ‘sorry.’ Things that I care about is who is that person that can give me peace, and I think we’ll never have peace, me and Kimberly.”
After Usman left the premise, Kim was shown crying on her suitcase. The earlier scenes showed Kim and Usman with Mahadi after Usman’s brother agreed to allow them adopt the boy and raise him in America if their mum agreed. The episode ended as Kim and Usman parted ways. Usman went home, and Kim packed her bags to return to her country.